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Who Am I

I am the twentieth grandchild of Arthur Clement Dale, a man I never knew.

Growing up in the 1960s and ’70s was pretty special. Our family was large and Italian (we were told), though I didn’t quite fit the typical image – I was tall, light-haired, and not as touchy-feely as the other Italian kids at school. Learning much later in life that grand-paw being from Sicily is much different than if he were from the northern Emilia-Romagna region of Italy.

 

 

Life at home was straightforward. My mom and dad (Maestri & Lois Dale) had six children, also around the corner Uncle Lenny & Aunt Betty they also had six children. My dad’s oldest brother Uncle Arthur Dale II owned the property between the two homes. “The trail” was a path that cut through the weeds and a short journey to our Sandlot Michael Maestri Dale’s Wonder Years.


In most families ancestry finds ordinary people living simple, ordinary lives. Their stories may not make it into textbooks or newspapers, but are part of a family’s collective heritage, reminding us of the value of simplicity, humility, and the beauty found in the everyday life.

When you explore the Maestri Dale family tree, it’s like flipping through a recipe book, but instead of ingredients, you discover a diverse array of quirky characters, much like the spices in a Creole gumbo.

On a crisp New Year’s Day in 1970, as firecrackers echoed in the yard, my world was shaken by the news of my grandmother’s passing. Jenny Maestri Dale, a pillar of strength who raised five children single-handedly and amassed wealth through real estate, had departed. Little did I know, this event would unravel mysteries buried within the family tomb at Metairie Cemetery, secrets Written in Stone.


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Exhuming Ancestral Potential

 
Lois Schultz Dale
Sept 8, 1929 – Feb 2, 2023

 

Rescuing Your Ancestral Father from the Voids of the Unknown

Dr. Jordan Peterson suggests that unlocking our full potential in life means having the guts to face the shadows of our ancestors. But diving into that deep end takes some nerve or ignorance.

He takes inspiration from a childhood story where Pinocchio goes on a wild adventure to save his dad from a giant whale, figuring out who he really is along the way.

Peterson says we’re heavily influenced by our ancestors, carrying a mix of traits passed down through our DNA. These traits, inherited from our folks, really come alive when we tackle challenges, causing our ancestral past to shape who we are.


As I laid my mother to rest in February of 2023, I peered into the profound darkness of the Maestri-Dale tomb and was drawn to the abyss that had engulfed our predecessors.

Like Pinocchio, I now embrace the role of the adventurer, a jackass of sorts, determined to rescue my ancestral fathers from oblivion.

Through this journey, I aim to unravel the timeless question:

Who am I?

 

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Intro to Family History

My grandfather, Arthur C. Dale, had always been an elusive figure in our shared legacy. Whispered beneath closed doors and veiled in shadows of the past, his memory was restrained by a date that bore his assumed parting of this earth in 1931. However, an inscription, written in stone professed a different tale, Arthur’s departure was indeed in 1957, some twenty-six years beyond the veil of our perceived history.

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The Hardest Part of an Adventure is Finding the Starting Point

I was merely nine years old, when my grandmother Jenny Maestri Dale passed away. Her funeral marked my first encounter with the concept of death. Gathered around the family tomb in Metairie Cemetery were my grandmother Jenny’s, five adult children, along with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

As the priest prayed over the casket, a solemn atmosphere enveloped us standing before the Maestri-Dale tomb. It remains etched in my memory as the only time I witnessed my father shed tears.

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